The Myth of subscribing to forever Love

Ahh that thing called LOVE and this is a very different view than most of the population so if your heart is set on settling down or finding that "forever love" here's a heads up, DO NOT read this blog.

We don't fall out of love, we trip ourselves up by subscribing to scripts. Many have subscribed to the idea of love much like being like a very well trained dog. Come home now, Do this, Do that, Don't move there, Don't spend money on that, Don't look like that, Don't dress like that. But guess what? You're not a dog. An ocean pretending to be a drop of water maybe.

Love is not a cage, it's a breathing frequency stuffed into this tiny little box we call forever. Silly silly, there's forever for some in a relationship but love (energy) doesn't know the meaning of forver, it can be a Season, a lifetime or a breath. Being attracted to more than one person is normal, there's 8 billion humans on this planet and you really think we are expected to just resonate and only find 1 love in this lifetime? That's like snorkelling in an ocean seeing 1 beautiful fish and if you notice another brighter more colourful fish do you say oh no I'm a liar and a terrible cheat on that first fish I saw? See how ridiculous that sounds? What a load of shit. Only a handful of people experience long term true romantic love, the rest are not in relatoinships, they're in contracts which if you're married probably cost you between $50-100k. Love isn't the issue, what you agreed to is. I promise to love you even if we outgrow eachother 10x over in the next 5-7 years even when you both become 2 completely different people with different dreams. But why? You haven't even accomplished what you agreed on with yourself first. People change, but relationships rarely change with them and in Tarot speak that's when the Tower collapses. Every 3 - 7 years your energy shifts, you shed layers and old skin. You update your inner software. If the relationship is not on the same upgrade it gets archived, forgotten. Open or closed relationships? Neither are more spiritual - That's all bullshit too. Some thrive with one partner others thrive with many. But goodness, at least be honest about what you want, your truth is not a category it's a frequency and it changes as you evolve or as the collective evolves. So choose what resonates now. You don't owe yesterday's self a lifetime subscription to anything. Children don't need parents who stay against their own better judgement, they need high functioning happy joyful parents and if that's done together great, but if it's done better by being seperated then embrace it. A stable parent is better than a miserable parent who stayed for the child. So.... learn to love without the ownership, connect without the cage and stay without the pressure.

I love you now, I may love you always but I will not force love to obey a timeline.